Why do people get affected by common mindset that is created in a society easily? For example, A pretty face, a beautiful body, a smart brain are the main traits to be attractive ?
Do you even wonder how many women fall into insecurities because of society's standard? Well, maybe not all of them. But most of women, including me feel insecure easily about how we look. Why am I not skinny enough? Why am I so chubby? The feeling of not being good enough haunts me, everyday.
I am aware that it's not good. But it's not easy to change my mindset, tho I've told myself all over again and even my friends and family (who absolutely have gotten bored with my constant rants about weight) that I don't have to stress so much about appearance.
Dear myself, There are so much people that are totally happy without having a vs-model like body or kpop-star's beautiful face. There are so much people that are totally happy when they eat soooo much although sometimes they gain weight (even you used to be always happy when you're 4kgs heavier than now), because at the end of the day, we're all humans with imperfections.
And imperfections aren't meant to be stressed over so much. Count the blessings you have, be grateful and explore more on what you can do.