Dear myself

Just my midnight thoughts:

Why do people get affected by common mindset that is created in a society easily? For example, 
A pretty face, a beautiful body, a smart brain are the main traits to be attractive ?

Do you even wonder how many women fall into insecurities because of society's standard? Well, maybe not all of them. But most of women, including me feel insecure easily about how we look. Why am I not skinny enough? Why am I so chubby? The feeling of not being good enough haunts me, everyday.

I am aware that it's not good. But it's not easy to change my mindset, tho I've told myself all over again and even my friends and family (who absolutely have gotten bored with my constant rants about weight) that I don't have to stress so much about appearance.

Dear myself,
There are so much people that are totally happy without having a vs-model like body or kpop-star's beautiful face. There are so much people that are totally happy when they eat soooo much although sometimes they gain weight (even you used to be always happy when you're 4kgs heavier than now), because at the end of the day, we're all humans with imperfections.

And imperfections aren't meant to be stressed over so much. Count the blessings you have, be grateful and explore more on what you can do.


  1. I wish I can give this post thumb up or heart <3
    Someone will always be prettier and smarter but they will never be you, because you're amazing just the way you are :)

  2. beautiful words you put up here #mucholoveeee <33

    cheer, michelle ~

  3. also happened in high school that I attended. So bad that I found one of my friend in every day being bullied about their body T___T

  4. I felt so insecure too about my weight T_T But I really like your positive thought Veren

    My Little Cream Button ♥

  5. We all do have insecurities. But one thing you need to remember, you are perfect in your own imperfections. Nobody can be you, and we are all unique and beautiful in our own way. Just be happy with everything, because in the end, beauty will fades, and happiness is all that matters <3 good night sweetie

  6. We all do have self-thought that always border us that in fact don't happened. Just be happy with what u have Veren. Have a good one. <3


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