Those Goals

#CoupleGoals

#BodyGoals

#LifeGoals

#FamilyGoals

etc

etc

and the list goes on.

Those terms seem very familiar these days, right?

Especially when in this high tech era, we can see others' and share our own personal lives on social medias.

I often use this kind of terms too whenever I see a pic of someone pretty / a couple looking very great to each other or anything else.

But, suddenly I have a thought. 

Are those terms good or necessary?

Well, maybe depends on your actions. 

It might create a mindset where those #goals as the common "standard" to the society.

For example, a #bodygoal is a body with big boobs, booty, and flat abs. 

Where on the other side, 

Remember that each of us has our own uniqueness, our own plus and minus, and we're all incomparable to anyone else. 

I don't want the common standards of #lifegoal #bodygoal #couplegoal #blalablagoal make people think that they should be that way too in order to be happy and liked or accepted by others.

I want everyone (including me) to define our own happiness from our heart, not from what we think we should be.

I don't need to be like anybody else to be happy. I don't need to have a castle-like house, a fine dining everyday, nor a super beautiful face & body to be happy. Simple things like eating my favorite food, being lazy in my tiny yet cozy bedroom, having a good talk with my parents, and a fun hang out with my friends can truly make me happy. My life is just perfectly imperfect as it is. I'm working on my own dreams in life. 

Create your own #GOALS that truly come from your heart.

GOT7 FLIGHT LOG TURBULENCE FAN MEETING JAKARTA

Last Saturday, I got the opportunity to watch GOT7's Flight Log: Turbulence Fan Meeting at The Kasablanka Hall, Jakarta with other Clozette Indonesia's ambassadors! I got the ticket from Samsung Galaxy J Prime & Clozette.

As many of you already know, I'm a korean lover (everything from the fashion, food, travel, beauty, dramas, music, movies, etc) and I used to be a k-poper in my high school days. I've  watched a few k-pop concerts like 2PM, Super Junior, and Winner! 

So when GOT7 announced their fan meeting in Jakarta, I was eager to go! Jackson and Mark are my favorite members. How about you??

The fan meeting was scheduled to start at 18.30. I came there around 18.00. The hall and queue were very well organized and managed!! I was quite surprise seeing that situation, as my past experiences of watching kpop concerts in Jakarta were such a mess. Bravo to MECIMA PRO & IGOT7s!

The fan meeting started on time. The fans were very enthusiastic and screaming before GOT7 even come out till the end of the fanmeet! LOL!

GOT7 performed most of their hits from Turbulence album and of course, Hardcarry was the best song!

There were also a play time session with lucky IGOT7s and chat session! It was so fun seeing how humble and playful the members are!

Before the encore, IGOT7 prepared a surprise to GOT7. It was a video compilation of IGOT7 from all over Indonesia. They were teary watching the video (so was I T.T).

Overall, I really had fun at the fan meeting! Thanks to Samsung Galaxy J Prime & Clozette Indonesia for the ticket.
I also feel very grateful and want to praise the promotor, MECIMA PRO for bringing GOT7 to Jakarta and making the event run very welll! It was the best k-pop event I've ever attended ;)

#JPrimexGOT7

Self Love

This pair of PEG BELTED PANTS from Cloth Inc is currently my favorite one. It's high waisted, comfortable, and can be styled easily! Here I show you how I wore them in 2 different outfits.

The first one is a casual look where I wore it with a white cropped top and a jacket. 

• Cropped top from Forever New
• PEG BELTED PANTS c/o Cloth Inc
• Jacket from Stradivarius
• Heels from Jeffrey Campbell
• Mini Backpack from ZARA

The second one is a semi-formal look where I wore it with a statement top! 

• Statement top from Day & Night
• PEG BELTED PANTS c/o Cloth Inc
• Bag from Prada
• Heels from Saint Laurent

Which one is your favorite?

My previous blogpost was a bucket of the ultimate problem I'm dealing with myself. I never expect myself to be such an insecure person. Because 2 years ago, I clearly wasn't.

It's just that in 2016, things started to go out of my control and turned me into an insecure person, who saw herself as never being enough. 

I've realized the problem, but I never truly came out from that zone.

Today, I read a quote from Rita Mae Brown; "I think the reward of conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself."

I immediately asked myself, "why do you hate yourself so much?".

If it were my insecure soul who answered, "I'm not skinny enough. I'm not pretty enough. I'm super selfish."

But then I took a deeper thought. "Why are looks so important to me? I don't need to have be insecure of how I look. It's totally irrelevant."

Yeap, #selflove is definitely important. Start from today, I promise to not to let my insecurities be the source of my unhappiness anymore. There are other problems that are more important than a stupid insecurity. There are so much things I have to be grateful for. I have amazing parents, amazing siblings, amazing friends who love me just the way I am and give so much care for me, and I couldn't have asked for more. 

I'm also thankful for your supportive comments on my previous post. I loveeee you!

Heart to Heart

I'm always grateful for everything that I have in my life.

I don't think I could've asked for more.

When someone told me to work harder to earn more, I answered her "How rich do you wish to be? It's never going to end. If I could be richer, I'd be grateful. But, I'm already happy at where I am at now."

It's absolutely not wrong to work harder and have an ambition. 

But too much ambition can cause you stress of being too focused on reaching that goal. You'll neglect everything besides that.

It's also absolutely right to be grateful for what we already have.

But doing nothing without effort doesn't lead you to anywhere. Life isn't meant to be stopped at one point, right? You have to keep on moving and improving your life.

Striving for a balanced life is harder than making it 'perfect'. I feel like I'm always 'in between'. I'm either being a perfectionist or do not give a single f at all. Sometimes I'm so focused on doing a goal that I over-push myself for it, without looking at my surroundings. Sometimes I feel like I HAVE to do something, but I'm too lazy for it.

Up until now, I'm still learning to have a balanced life. It's okay not to do my routines when I don't feel like it. It's okay to accept changes, especially the ones I don't want them to appear. 

It's okay to go backward, because I'll learn and improve myself from the mistakes.

I'm still learning about acceptance. I'm still learning not to be so stubborn. 

When you're wondering... Why do problems keep on coming?

Think about... That it's the process we have in life. Problems are the challenges we have to face. Without them, we can't be a better person. At the end, it's about how we decide to face them. 

Solve our problems with acceptance and pick up the lessons. Not with sadness and anger.